Saturday, December 31, 2011

1st trimester details

By next week, I will be finished with my first trimester. What this means is that the possibility for miscarriage drops significantly, my baby is looking more human like, and I'm hoping it means an end to morning sickness. I started out just being nauseous in the mornings, then it moved to vomiting around lunch time and now I'm throwing up in the evenings. It's kind of a catch-22  because it's almost a comforting sign that things are going good but you really just want to spend more time out of the bed and toilet.

It's going to be very interesting to navigate this pregnancy through the Dutch healthcare system. Obgyn? who needs 'em?! getting weighed? nope! Want to get a hold of your midwife? better call during the 1 hour a day that the phones are answered! Here in the Netherlands, they exclusively use midwives, unless there are major complications, then you are referred to a doctor. 40% of Dutch women give birth at home (I will not be doing that, fyi). They do minimal prenatal testing and feel that pregnancy is a very natural thing and nature will just take it's course. I have a feeling I will have some good stories to tell throughout this whole process so stay tuned!

We had our first ultrasound yesterday and it was amazing!! You never know what you will think or feel because for the past several weeks, while you know you are pregnant, all you really know is that something is making you crazy sick. So to finally see the little one was such a surreal experience. As soon as we found the baby, it looked just like a little person! It was moving around like crazy! It had it's arms up and appeared to be waving at us. Even the ultrasound tech was laughing and commenting on how much it was moving. I think it takes after it's parents and enjoys being photographed. When it finally rested for a few minutes, we were able to see the heart beat, moving steady and strong. I may be biased but I'm pretty sure we have the cutest in utero baby!!:) The baby was measuring perfectly for it's age (just under 2 inches long, 11weeks, 3 days). We'll go back again around 20 weeks to make sure everything is developing properly and find out the sex. 

Here are some of the first pics of baby Caputo!!

Baby Time!

Since we had the Bahama vacation (see post below) we were fortunate enough to get to go home for Thanksgiving this year! We got to spend a lot of good times with family and friends but I would say that my best memory of being home would be finding out that we are having a baby!!!

After our Bahama vacation, I kept telling Dan that I felt "different" and wondered if I was pregnant. We hadn't exactly been trying but there was enough possibility that I could've been. We decided to wait a bit to see if anything changed and thought maybe it was attributed to all the traveling we had been doing. The week of Thanksgiving, I started feeling nauseous and on our drive to Illinois on Thanksgiving day, I couldn't talk for fear of vomiting. We decided later that night that we would take a pregnancy test the next day. We had a great Thanksgiving and enjoyed getting to spend the time with Dan's family.

On Friday, we were back in St. Louis and had to do a little last minute Christmas shopping for his mom so we went to Target. We also decided to buy the test and take it in the bathroom. Yes, yes we did. Both of our mom's were very gung ho about us having kids so we didn't want to take the chance of them finding the wrapper and getting any ideas!:) So I made Dan buy the test because I was going to be using the private, handicapped bathroom right next to the pharmacy where he was buying the test, so that would be embarrassing if they saw me buy it and then go directly into the bathroom!!:) So I went into the bathroom and took the test. and waited. and waited. and waited. Nothing was happening! no lines were turning, the control line was not changing. Nothing! So I re-read the instructions and they said if the control line hadn't changed after 10 minutes, then it was a faulty test or I did something wrong. So after 10 minutes, I came out of the bathroom to an expectant Dan. "Uh..I think I messed it up." Dan just looked at me and started laughing and asked me how I could mess it up? I don't know but luckily there were two sticks in there. Of course now I no longer had to go to the bathroom.

So we walked around Target some more and then decided we needed to go to Kohl's, the whole time laughing about how we seemed like a bunch of teenagers, trying to find out if we were pregnant. So we drive to Kohl's and I'm chugging water on the way, determined not to mess this one up (Those tests are freaky expensive!) Dan and I made a deal that I would wait to look at it until I came out of the bathroom so that we could look at it together, since it's supposed to take up to 3 minutes to change. So, I went to the bathroom and as soon as I finished and went to place the cap on and wrap it in toilet paper, it had already turned positive!!! 3 minutes? more like 3 seconds!  I came out of the bathroom with a big smile on my face. Dan said later he thought I had messed up the test again because I was smiling. I pulled out the test and showed him and we both started silently screaming (we were in Kohl's remember) and hugging and kissing. We quickly made our way out of the store where we did not have to be silent anymore.

We knew we wanted to tell our families right away so that we could tell them in person. We bought a newborn onesie that said, "what happens at grandma's, stays at grandma's" (it was all we could find! ) and surprised Dan's mom with it at dinner that night. The waiting for them to get it is priceless! Of course she was very excited and ready to start shopping!:) We told my parents a few days later when we were back in Kansas City. My mom did not get it for about 30 seconds. She just kept looking at it and saying, "oh that's nice". She thought it was a shirt for my 4 year old niece! Finally someone said, "do you get it?" and then she freaked out. We had tricked her earlier in the day when we met up with Dan's mom in Columiba to go shopping. They kept talking baby stuff and I kept acting like I wanted to no part in talking about it. So my mom was fully convinced we were not going to be even trying for awhile!! It was great!

So we are super excited! I'm due July 18, 2012. Which means I'm about 12 weeks along. We can't wait for our little Baby Caputo to get here!!

Bahamas 2011

Thanks to Wheel of Fortune, we got to take our Bahama vacation this November! People have been asking me if it was "for real", as in, are the prizes you win really as awesome as they seem to be? The answer is YES! It was amazing! The island we went to, Eleuthera, is a smaller island and less touristy than some of the big name islands, such as Nassau or Grand Bahamas. This made for the ideal, relaxing vacation.

Our villa was amazing! It was two-story, beautifully furnished, and right on the water. Out the back of the villa, you looked onto the marina/ocean and out the front, you also looked onto the ocean! We woke up every morning to the sound of the waves and palm trees blowing.


We spent the first day or two, relaxing, exploring beaches and getting rid of jet lag. We went to one of the most amazing beaches in the Bahamas, Lighthouse beach. To get to this beach, you have to drive to the very Southernmost tip of the island and then get on an all dirt, very rutted, makeshift road and drive 3 miles until you finally arrive at the beach. There were a few times we didn't think we would make it in our Buick custom! However, the drive was well worth the view.

We literally had this entire beach to ourselves for hours. It was amazing!!


The next two days we spent scuba diving!! Let me tell you, it was a million times better than our scuba experience in the Netherlands. We didn't have to wear wet suits, there were fish, and the water was so warm and crystal clear! We saw sting ray, lion fish, beautiful coral heads, and so many different types of fish. The second day of diving, we got to dive to 80 feet!! We also got to dive with one of the world's most famous divers, Neal Watson! He holds two Guiness World Records; one for the deepest dive of 432 feet and the other for the longest underwater swim on compressed air. He swam 66 miles in about 19 hours.  The deepest dive record is officially closed because a number of people have died trying to break it! He was also in a few of the James Bond movies and taught Fergie (Duchess of York) and Russell Brand, how to dive. We found all this out later from some friends we met but we was really nice and down to earth. A definite beach bum! Speaking of our friends, we met this really nice couple who worked for a dive magazine and they were down there doing an article. They took a ton of underwater pictures of us so hopefully we'll get to see some and I can post them later!!

Overall it was a fabulous vacation and a great, free, getaway for us!!

anddd no, i'm not going European style swimming here, apparently my top just needs pulled up a bit:)

Girls Trip 2011!

First, I apologize for the hiatus from the blog. Life got crazy, I couldn't upload pictures, and time got away from me. But one of my New Year's resolutions is to keep up better with the blog! So some of these posts are going to be about things that have already happened but I'd like to share them nonetheless.


As the title of my post suggests, I had two friends come over in late September to visit. First time to Europe and it was soooo good to see familiar faces in my new territory. We spent the first few days getting them adjusted to the time change,which meant marching them around Leiden, showing them all the cool history that I'm sure they have no recollection of! The following day we went to Amsterdam and did a boat tour, toured the Anne Frank house, and fed the pigeons in Dam Square.  We ended up our day eating Dutch pancakes and packing for the start of our Tour De Europa.

We left early the next morning for the airport, to make our flight to our first destination...Rome! Rome was a whirlwind, at least for me. There is soo much to see and do there and we were just in awe of all the history. We went to the Colosseum, the Roman forum, the Pantheon, the Spanish Steps, Trevi Fountain,and a ton of other small gems we found. We ate at the world famous "Alfredo's" home of the "original fettuccine alfredo" . Not what we think of as fettuccine alfredo but delicious anyways! We toured the National Museum of Rome, which basically was a lot of carved heads. The real reason we wanted to go there was because of the famous Discus thrower statue. Turns out it was a fake. That was disappointing.  We spent our last day in Rome at the Vatican City. We toured the Vatican museum, at which point we entered a time warp and seemingly lost half our day. We sat in awe in the Sistine Chapel and thanks to Rick Steve's travel book, found our way through a secret backdoor out of the sistine chapel, into St. Peter's Basilica. Did you know that the Sistine Chapel is the pope's personal chapel? and that is also where all the bishops and cardinals lock themselves away to choose the next pope? That is where the white smoke comes from. Pretty exciting to think about. So we did a quick tour thru the Basilica, which was incredibly ornate and beautifully done. We saw where the pope gives mass and where Peter's bones are buried. Definitely, maybe. We had to hurry  though because we wanted to climb the stairs to the top of the dome and we were running out of time before we had to catch our plane. We climbed some 600 stairs, through a narrow, cramped, slanted, curvy passageway, all the way to the top of the Vatican. It was the highest point in Rome and the view was well worth the climb to the top. But we had to quickly make our way down so we could catch our flight to our next destination.



VENICE!!!
Venice was every bit as amazing as it appears in the movies. We only spent one day there but we got to see most everything. The best advice we were given was to get lost in the back streets of Venice. The island itself is so small that you eventually wind your way back to the main parts. True to form, there were gondolas, street artists, and delicious gelato! It really is a picturesque place with beautifully colored buildings that are directly on the water. We actually stayed a little outside of Venice, which made for cheaper accommodations and I would recommend that to anyone on a budget. It was a short 15 minute bus ride into the city.



Finally we headed to our last stop, Barcelona!

Barcelona
We had no idea about Barcelona and had forgotten the travel book at home so we were really on our own. It was the most relaxed part of the trip because we didn't have an agenda. We stayed in a hostel, which was interesting in and of itself. We spent a day at the beach, splashing in the Mediterranean and feeling slightly overdressed as we were surrounded by a lot of topless women. I tried to convince Meg to "do as the locals do" but she just couldn't get behind that. :) We also celebrated Meg's 31st birthday with a traditional Spanish dinner and sangria! We followed that up with going to a flamenco dancer show. It was absolutely amazing. It was a more intimate setting, above a bar with just about 50 people crowded around a small stage, with one flamenco dancer, a singer, and a classical guitarist. That was my favorite thing in Barcelona! We also visited a lot of the artist Gaudi's works, including the Sagrada Famillia, which is a crazy church that has been in construction for some 120 years and is still not finished!


and then we capped off our Tour de Europa with some relaxing time back in Leiden, where the girls got their first experience at riding bikes as their main mode of transportation! It was a fabulous trip and I am so thankful that I have good friends willing to make the journey to come visit!

Monday, September 5, 2011

Scuba Diving

Last week was a verrrrry long week for Dan and me. We spent the whole week in a different part of the country, getting scuba certified. This was a part of the prize package I won on Wheel of Fortune because we will be scuba diving in the Bahamas.  All I can really say is that I hope scuba diving in the Bahamas is a lot more fun than diving in a lake in the middle of Holland. 


I wrote an email to my best friend after the first day of diving and I think it sums up pretty well my thoughts on the whole thing so I'm just going to copy and paste it here...and then maybe add a few more comments about the end of the experience.


1st dive-miserable
floundering around like a beached whale
floating
sinking
falling forward
falling backward
can't stay still on the lake floor
ended dive a tad early due to my incompetence
crying in my mask
hoping everyone thinks it's water
vowing to not come back the next day
 
asked to do a 2nd dive
wanting to cry again
willing to give it another shot
focused on my breathing
started to flounder upon initial descent
saved from rolling down a giant sea hill by the instructor
finally got my bearings
was able to kneel on the sea floor and not move
still not moving
not floating
this is good
doing underwater exercises
for example
taking our regulator(breathing thing) out of our mouth and throwing it behind us.
have to find the tube
get regulator back in mouth and breathe again
went pretty well
was able to take a swim because my buyouncy was finally more controlled
saw a crawfish
they call them small lobsters
saw one fish
seriously, one fish in one hour
felt better about it
not quitting yet
sore
did get to fall out of the boat backwards
almost peed my pants when i got back to shore because i had to pee so bad
glad there is only 3 more days left
hope the scenery in the bahamas is worth it
pretty sure i could be content just snorkeling on the surface

The experience got better as the week went on but seriously, it is so much effort to just even get ready to get in the water! I think our deepest dive was about 40 feet and we were typically under for about 40-50 minutes. We passed our certification written and training test so we are officially scuba certified!! We also got our picture taken to be in the Naui Scuba magazine for being "prize winners" (that's what they kept calling us all week long). Overall, it was a tiring experience and I'm still hoping that it will be worth it when we are some place tropical. 

Someone, Anyone, please tell me it will be worth it.


Friday, August 26, 2011

1 year anniversary!

This post is nearly a week late but I have been bogged down with Dutch exams this week so please forgive my lateness! One year ago on August 21, I married my best friend. I cannot believe it has been a year since we said "I do". For those who know us, we dated 8 years before finally tying the knot. All that time seems like a drop in the bucket now. I can, without any hesitation, say that this year has been the best year of my life. Sure, I have moved to Europe and have gotten to experience amazing places and things I've never seen before but the best thing is that I have got to do that with the person I love. Beautiful places and amazing sights just aren't quite the same if you can't share it with someone special.

This year has brought many exciting adventures, challenges, new experiences, new friends, and a whole new life. I feel like I have grown in love, grace, still working on patience :), and so many other character traits. I love that marriage is used as an example of Christ's love for us because I think it truly does give us a tiny glimpse into how much He really loves us.

I'm excited to see what this year holds for us. It's hard to believe that anything could trump this first year but I'm looking forward to finding out!!

A year ago. . .August 21, 2010





And now...August 21,2011



Thursday, August 11, 2011

Politics



Recently it seems I have been having a lot of political conversations with internationals. I know, I know, they say don't talk about politics or religion but trust me, it's bound to come up when you're an American living abroad. It's very interesting to be living in Europe and see/hear what the rest of the world thinks of American politics. People have very strong opinions here about it but don't really seem to know the whole story. Just like a lot of things in life, they view things through their own world lens. To most Dutch people, it seems outrageous that we don't have universal healthcare and that we have poverty in America. They can't understand the way our government operates because they don't know any different. My impression so far is that most Europeans think that republicans are from the devil, our government just needs to raise the taxes to pay for things (like healthcare), and conservative people are crazy. They don't understand how our economy works. They are used to their government taking care of them  and when I try to explain to them that that is not the foundation that America was built on and is in fact the very opposite of what America stands for, they get a blank look on their face.

I feel very fortunate to claim citizenship to a country where I have these freedoms, where I don't have to depend on the government for all my needs and where I have the ability to climb up the proverbial ladder if I so choose. It gets very frustrating to discuss American politics with others when all they hear is one side of the story and that is ususally the very liberal side. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying the government is doing a great job and that nothing needs to change. But what a lot of Europeans think America needs to change, is the very thing that makes us America. They are comfortable with all the power being in the hands of the government, not the people. That is not America.